I feel a shift. It is a shift towards a focus on school marks and scores. When did we become so focused on the marks our children get at school and not enough on a score of enjoyment and passion? Only recently, someone told me about the low grade her daughter got in her year six exams. Out of about five subjects, she got two low grades. Not bad, in my opinion. Guess which mark became the focus of the family dinner table discussion?
What do marks really say about a child anyway? That they are good, great, average or not so great in one area of study? Why have we not given our children a mark on how respectful they are, the essence of being nice and kind, or even the ability to show compassion and love? It is always summed up in report cards as “…but she is a lovely kind and beautiful girl.” Thanks for that. Where’s the report card that shows emotional qualities and achievements?
I want my children to grow up knowing that I don’t care what mark they get. If they are kind, generous, compassionate people and show respect to others, my job is done. As long as they are doing their best for the majority of their schooling years, enjoying the most part of their days and building solid foundations for their future, what more can I ask?
I feel we are focusing a little too much on these school grades and overall year twelve final assessment marks. They have relevance; I know, but seriously, enough with this sole focus on academic schooling and resulting grades. There is so much more we should be “assessing” and rewarding… isn’t there?
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This article was first seen in 3000Melbourne Magazine.
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