things i know to date about being a mum

I know that being a mum is the toughest job on this planet

But I also know at the same time it is the most rewarding, uplifting and exhilarating one!

I know that everything I ever thought, imagined, or conceptualised about what being a mum is about has gone out the window. Nothing really prepares you.

I know that the need to be flexible is crucial. Being inflexible only creates more stress and anxiety.

I NOW know what it means to “go with the flow”!

I know that when my days are tough, challenging and hard, there is someone going through an even tougher time.

Although my challenges are real to me at the time, they are nothing compared to some. I know I need to keep things in perspective.

I know that the cheeky smiles and grins my Little E pulls are definitely from me… I can claim that one.

I now know how important the simple things in life are. Take in the moment, step back and enjoy.

I know that converting to the “mum” label is hard for some. Harder for some who feel they are letting a piece of themselves go. Harder for some that feel guilty for feeling this way.

I know that we all have moments where we feel embarrassed.

I know that once you are a parent it all becomes about putting your child’s interests ahead of your own and everyone else’s. But I also know we have to give ourselves permission to take a break and do something for yourself every now and then. And NOT feel guilty for it!

Being a healthy and happy you also creates a healthy and happy child.

 

What do you know?

 

Tahlia xx

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